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Once Upon A Time Your Professor Was a Freshman

By Marcy Kraus, dean of freshmen and director of the College Center for Academic Support

Nearly a decade ago, Harvard professor Richard Light noted in his newly published book Making the Most of College that the "single most important bit of advice" he shares with his advisees is to "get to know one faculty member reasonably well ... and also to have that faculty member get to know you reasonably well." Remarkably, many otherwise successful college students don't actively seek out opportunities to get to know their professors even though the benefits of such relationships are self-evident. Why might this be the case? Many students report that fear or shyness prevent them from approaching professors. Others think their professors are too busy or not interested in getting to know them. Simply put, many students aren't sure how to take those initial steps.

As advisors, we often coach students in the art of getting to know your professors. Some tips include:

In his book, Richard Light reports that upon graduation, his students often reflect about the professors they met during their academic careers, and the powerful impact they had on their lives. Indeed, such relationships can make the difference between students who "survived" and students who "thrived" during their years in college.